test: raise mini-server startup wait from 30s to 90s in Makefiles (#12005)

* test: raise mini-server startup wait from 30s to 90s in Makefiles

Self-hosted/persistent runners under load regularly need >30s for
weed mini (master+volume+filer+s3+iceberg+lance+webdav+worker) to
become healthy; hosted runners start in <10s. Siblings already wait
90s (s3/checksum, s3/cors). Fixes the S3 Filer Group first-run flake
on busy self-hosted runners.

* test: align Makefile startup guards and progress totals with 90s bound

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test/s3/versioning/Makefile

@@ -331,7 +331,7 @@ start-server-simple: check-deps
 		echo $$! > weed-server.pid
 	
 	@echo "Waiting for S3 server to be ready..."
-	@for i in $$(seq 1 30); do \
+	@for i in $$(seq 1 90); do \
 		if echo | nc -z localhost $(S3_PORT); then \
 			echo "S3 server is ready!"; \
 			exit 0; \