Replace UseIOUring bool with IOBackend IOBackendMode (tri-state):
- "standard" (default): sequential pread/pwrite/fdatasync
- "auto": try io_uring, fall back to standard with warning log
- "io_uring": require io_uring, fail startup if unavailable
NewIOUring now returns ErrIOUringUnavailable instead of silently
falling back — callers decide whether to fail or fall back based
on the requested mode. All mode transitions are logged:
io backend: requested=auto selected=standard reason=...
io backend: requested=io_uring selected=io_uring
CLI: --io-backend=standard|auto|io_uring added to iscsi-target.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>
